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怎么说呢,我觉得“为了自己所谓的利益牺牲自己觉得正确的东西而去附和自己明明觉得是错误的事情”这件事本身是错误的。某一类人会说“现在你还没有能力影响其他人,要等到掌握足够权力资源才有做正确的事情的资本”。我觉得不是这样的。我自己的经历:如果人为了得到能让自己感觉安全的权力和资源决定去做违心的事情,讲违心的话,他就会变得畏手畏脚,小心翼翼,最后被还没有得到的东西控制,丧失自我,成为习惯。就算侥幸得到了所谓的“权力和资源”,也不再会坚持自己曾经坚持的正确的东西,而是成为一具“识时务”的僵尸。没有能力改变他人,至少我有那么一点点勇气坚持自己。再困难也好,这种诚实和不服输让我觉得很踏实。

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最近两个月很困扰的事情:一直想写长一点的文章,不管是书评还是近况,但一旦想要提笔落字就精神萎靡——可能是前一段时间改文章改伤了,更可能是近期就没有什么阅读量(非论文/学科参考书)。无论是怎样的原因,这都是我不想发生的...没有阅读就没有今天的我。生命不息阅读不止

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“The greatest challenge to any thinker is stating the problem in a way that will allow a solution.” — Bertrand Russell

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一般情况下畅销书基本都意味着需要警惕其糟糕的质量。不过今年还是有三本想看完的畅销书:
从零开始的女性主义(畅销社科类)
追风筝的人(畅销文学类)
邓小平时代(畅销历史类)

第三本还特地买了原版实体,感觉除非请一个月假读否则没啥可能读完......(梦想总是有的)

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【中翻】Lost paradise – 君の美術館
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挺喜欢的一首歌,和声好听,在歌词的设定上非常有意思。只可惜没有实体碟没有歌本,听力极限...

翻完之后再一次觉得果然歌词和旋律的融合才能完成一首歌的情感表达。

可能对ADHD有帮助的一些建议——来自油管Ryan Fill评论 

可以看出大哥确实是过来人,很实在的建议,即使做不到也可以参考下。ADHD对每个人的影响是不一样的,基因+环境造成illness或者disorder。希望大家都能在事情完全失去控制之前做一点点改善!

Ok so I have ADHD and have gone through some major depression in my life, I have had some major lows in life and here are things that helped me alot:

1) Use your ability to hyper focus in your career and you will gain tremendous success in any field of work you are in. Being able to handle high stress loads which most people with ADHD have no problems dealing with, makes you an incredible asset. You will soon learn that you will thrive in chaos and die from boredom. Keep yourself busy!!!!
2) If schooling is not away to learn, go into trades/construction where you can hand on learn and use your senses to learn. You have a great advantage of learning when you are engaged in what you are learning. At the age of 28 I'm outshining engineers who have gone to school for 5+ years and managing people who are double my age. I don't have any degrees/diplomas.
3) Stay away from alcohol and drugs, you become waaay to dopamine dependent and always seek it. You have a way healthier balance of life without it.
4) Be very careful entering relationships with the wrong people, the amount you will overthink things in relationship is really hard to stay balanced. Break ups are incredibly hard for the amount of overthinking you are going to be going through. Be incredibly picky you you allow into your heart.
5) Understand that alot of the things that you think are going wrong in life is just your brain overthinking things and not properly sorting out thoughts, events and emotions. Meditate before bed every night to sort out all of these thoughts and you will realize how little significant the things you are beating yourself up over. You can easily do 10 great things in your day and 1 negative thing that happened makes you completely forget all the bad ass things you done in the day. Praise wins and ignore loses.
6) When you start slipping into negative mind sets, make it habit to catch and realize your going into this mindset and with the knowledge that you are doing so because of your ADHD and this thought actually not being valid. I often talk myself out of things before my brain gets to obsessed with the negative. On this note, if you do sink to far down a rabbit whole of negative. EVERY SINGLE GOD DAMN TIME YOU NEED TO REALIZE IT WILL MAKE YOU A STRONGER PERSON TO GET THROUGH IT AND FIGHT LIKE HELL. You will start to realize what a blessing it is to be in a low spot in your life, because you know how much stronger of a person you will be on the other side, after you go through this a few times.
7) Every single day you need to drain both your physical and mental energy. You need to do both exercise and do things that are mentally stimulating.
8) Work on your communication skills and the way our brains work, we can easily become amazing conversationalists and become quite funny, interesting and all around enjoyable people to be around.
9) DO NOT BE AFRAID OF YOUR QUIRKYNESS!! Our random ass minds make us very unpredictable to people and people love it. Be silly and goofy around people and say what ever is on your mind. I always get compliments how random and funny I am. People without ADHD are more likely to be predictable and boring. I'm sure you all know how much you can be a chatter box around people you comfortable with, work on being this way with everyone.
10) Ultimately you need to become inlove with yourself and see yourself as unique and amazing person. You are an incredibly gifted human being and you need to see ADHD as a blessing more then a curse. Work your very hardest to see the beauty of life and become the most positive/uplifting person you can become. You will shine bright like a diamond and life will treat you extremely well, once you master your mindset.

Last but not least Tony Robbins taught me this in one of his videos, but people with ADHD are going to be extremely impatient and sporadic. Realize everything in life takes time and stop OVER ESTIMATING what you can accomplish in one year and stop UNDER ESTIMATING what you can do in 10. In time everything will sort itself out and YOU WILL FIND YOUR PLACE AMONST EVERYONE on this planet.

Much love,

Ryan

明天为什么要上班?我觉得特别特别难过!再也不想分析那么多为什么了。再分析也分析不清楚,除了难过还要加上累。我要坦诚地接受自己难过这件事。难过一会儿然后睡觉。

Year那个Y中间就是用来放烦心事的,多了之后就会变成Tear

铁笼之谜不看结尾真的可以给六星(认真)。卡尔的英文文笔没得说

我觉得卡尼曼说的真对,人类心理是一种特别靠不住的东西…人对一个事件的评价印象是个向量大多被始终态左右而非过程—难怪一个anticlimax会让人极度的扫兴…从事实上考虑既对也不对吧…毕竟我也是给铁笼之谜打了两星的人…

翻了翻之前两个季度的日记,其实还是能看出来每个季度心态在逐渐转好的。第一季度特别是1-2月全是C级评价…到了第三季度C级的评价大约一个月也就那么两三天,A的比例能占到1/3,很不错了…第四季度继续努力吧!

前老板带来了一些看起来像是好消息的消息,一点都不开心(也并不不开心)...世界上只有妥协了和没妥协两种定性的状态,一旦妥协了,不管这个妥协内部是如何定量的,都不会改变妥协了的事实...所以真的不是很有所谓。我只希望能够少一些麻烦,让我能有更多的精力去做其他有意思的事情...

感觉自己是那种喝完酒之后话会变多的类型...但其实也说不出啥,可能更像是一种摄入麻醉剂来暂时麻痹overthinking的神经这样的一种行为。强求的人生没有意思,顺其自然的人生感觉也没有什么意思...总的来说人生本身就没什么意思...活着的意义可能更多的是去观测有意思的事情有意思的人,思考有意思的问题。哪有那么多大义,过好每天就已经是一个收支平衡的过程了

隔壁实验室有个在单位呆了7年的博后要去美国工业界开组了。是个波兰人带了两瓶伏特加来——好久没有喝伏特加了...还是有种味道纯粹的感觉...

过去5年眼睁睁地看着华而不实的吹嘘,创业资本的涌入和政治化的派系发展是如何把之前自己热爱的领域一步一步变成一个固步自封的空中笼城的,就已经逐渐有了想要离开的心思。今年6月去开会的时候还有一丝的幻想,觉得也许能从新鲜血液中看到一些希望——结果等来的就是对整个领域更为巨大的幻灭。现在切换到一个更平实的领域从头开始,读着那些虽然没有花里胡哨的外表,没有跻身所谓“顶级期刊”行列可数据丰富,对照详实,阐述基于事实而不是基于想象的文章们,仿佛又找回了一些之前对科研的热爱。但还是经常忍不住躲在角落里舔断掉的手腕还在滴血的伤口。挺伤心的。

控制体重简直是长期痛苦的持久战,很担心十月搞不好又要压力肥了…

看上野千鹤子说如果一个人在二十岁到三十岁这成长最快的十年里学到的是“人的极限”而不是“人的愚蠢”该有多好。因为“三十多岁的人失去了童年无所不能的感觉,会渐渐感觉到能力与体力层面的极限。与此同时,这也是生出‘自立’的年纪。我们会扪心自问,在达到极限之前能做到什么,明确区分自己做得到的和做不到的,放弃做不到的,真诚、仔细、踏实地做那些做得到的……只有这样才能产生自信和信任”。
觉得非常有道理,摘录来与诸君共享。

今天看到的最搞笑的言论:一个自称是美国左派的简中人,说节能减排是21世纪的共产主义号召全世界人民抵制。我寻思着这大概就是一边喊改革开放两只猫万岁一边号召大家倒背治国理政完成伟大复兴吧。现在怀疑灯塔国的自由催生精分人(这个比之前一干华人川粉还厉害)

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